Relationships are not rocket science. It is just about taking care of all the little things. For relationships to grow and stay strong lifelong, there are several things that one needs to do. Especially when dealing with men, women can do numerous simple things to make sure that they also feel loved and cared for. And we are not talking about gifting your man with expensive things. We are talking about making a man feel loved and cared for through behavior. Usually, in relationships, women are the ones who are often pampered and showered with a lot of love and attention. However even men love to be pampered. Most men are not vocal and hardly express and that makes it a little difficult for women because they are left clueless thinking about what can they do to please them. But, we are here to help you deal with this confusion. We have listed down 8 tips to keep your man madly in love with you even after several years.
1. Be his best friend
Every man looks for a friend in his partner. If you want your man to appreciate you and love you more than ever, make sure you are his best friend first. Make him feel comfortable and assure him that he can share with you anything he wants just like he would do with his friends.
2. Be spontaneous and playful
Men love to have fun with their partners. However, if you shy away from having fun or if you are not spontaneous and too predictable, men may feel too bored. Do you remember how you guys were in the initial stages of love? Drinks, movies, dates and merriment, do all of these even now when he is least expecting it. Spontaneity always helps a relationship.
3. Give him his space
Men love to be left alone sometimes. They love their space and get annoyed when that space is intruded. If your man seems to be stressed or a little off, just give him some time to cool off. Also if your man wants to be alone and do his usual stuff like watching his favorite shows or matches, just let him be. They deserve alone time too.
4. Never bring up his past in fights
This is one thing that turns off most men. If you guys ever have a fight, never bring up his a past. There is a reason why it is called the past. He has chosen to move on and be with you. Thus, respect him and make sure you never bring up hisnot forget that he trusted you when he shared his past with you. Do not use this against him.
5. Be vocal about what you want from your man
Always voice your feelings when in a relationship. He is not a mind reader and he certainly can’t assume. Every time you want something from your man or are expecting something, be vocal. Just tell him what you need or what you feel and your man will appreciate you for this.
6. Never go for the silent treatment
Ignoring your man during a fight or when he hurts you may seem like the best way to solve the situation. However truth be told, men hate the silent treatment and chances are he will ignore you more than you do. Like we said, being vocal and talking it out is always the best thing to do.
7. Compliment him often
It Is not just women, but even men love compliments. If your man looks good on a certain day, compliment him. If he did something to help you with household chores, appreciate him for this. It will boost his confidence.
8. Be wild in bed
Another thing that every man loves is good sex. To keep him sexually attracted, be wild in bed and do not shy away from trying new things. Be wild, spontaneous and sexy in bed.
These tips are all you need to make your man happy. The next time you want to do something for your man, just follow these tips and he will be the happiest. More than materialistic things, such simple things make for a happy relationship.